Called it off...

They’ve called it off…
Thier Love Story ended even before it started to take off…. After going through some high voltage dramatic events yesterday (17.7) they have finally decided to call it off….
It’s all over now but no one even knows the core reason behind ending all that…. Even not the persons who were going through that rough patch, well I don’t blame them as I know what emotional atyachar they were facing specially him (not sure but I think you agree with it N). And whatever is going on there is quite strange as I use to think that uncle aunty are pretty cool about all this and they will happily agree with their child’s choice. But after seeing all that had happened during last 3 months I must say that I was very much wrong.
Despite both of them being very much in love they had to call it off, reason being family approval. The most common reasons in which families are usually against love marriages like Caste, Creed & Religion are not valid here. The only reason given by parents behind being against this union is hard to digest. And hence finally after perhaps a few days of discussion they decided to take this tough step, calling it off.
Now one thing that I really don’t understand is what does parents what to prove.
} Can’t they see their child’s happiness?
} Does this selfish world stand above their ward’s happiness?
} Does the thought “What people will say?” stands way above what their children want?
And who are these people, the one who doesn’t care what you are doing.
6 The one who will never help you out when you ended up in some grave situation.
6 The one who will never gonna stand by you when whole world is against you.
6 Whom you meet only in some functions for an hour or a half
How come these people whom you met only for a few hours or never had met get much more influence in decisions relating to life of your offsprings,

• whom you gave birth to
• whom you’ve grown up
• whose all wishes you’ve fulfilled and
• to whom you’ve loved for all these years.
• .....

I agree that parents must have to control our's (children's) decision when its matter of teenage romance or school/college affairs or when we are into job for not more than a year or two, as no one is that matured during those days. But once we (children) come out of cocoon, to real world, worked for 3-4 years, faced difficulties that comes in our real life, Parents should respect our decisions too. As after 3-4 years of exposure to outer world one can be matured enough to take decisons for his/her life. Although for a parent kid is always kid whether he is 15 or 50 but at proper age they have to ensure that their we can start taking our own decision and to do this they have to respect some of the decisions that we have made. If they dont agree then they must have to explain why they think our decision is wrong, this will atleast help us to not to repeat that mistake again......

I can be wrong here.... but untill n unless someone told me where I am wrong how can I realize that I am wrong and how to correct myself.
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I am really sorry dear if you found anything offensive about your family, you know I don't mean it to be that way.